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5 Ways to Cope with Annoying Co-Workers

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Tiwa and Tope are Co-Workers, because Tiwa has a Higher National Diploma and Tope holds a BSc.,  Tiwa hates her guts with a passion.

So at every point in time, Tiwa ensures that she does everything to sabotage Tope. There was a day, Tope almost lost her job because Tiwa reported a minor slip to Mrs Savage, their supervisor.

 Thankfully, Tope was only let off with a warning but at some point, she got extremely frustrated because the fear of Tiwa’s antics was distracting her at work every single day.

 Your Co-Workers will determine your success on the job, whether you like it or not, your co-workers will have a strong effect on your productivity on the job. Working with great co-workers will make you enjoy the work you do.

Annoying Co-Workers range from arrogant and lazy to overly talkative and insatiable. You have to ensure that they don’t draw you back.

Here are 5 Ways to Cope with Annoying Co-Workers

Identify the Behavior that Bothers You

You have to pin point the behavior that bothers you because that is the only way you can find a solution to it. Understand his or her job versus your job and find boundaries that will help one another execute his or her duties.

Find Common Ground

Employees who have a co-worker they continually butt heads with should try to find a common interest with that person. Try to find at least one thing you can talk about even if it is something as trivial as Make- Up. Start with a complement and you will realise how complements can be ice breakers.

Avoid Office Gossip

Although you might want to vent to other colleagues about the situation, don’t give into temptation. Gossip turns you to the annoying co-worker in the eyes of everyone so at all cost, stay away from office gossip.

Confront the Co-Worker Directly

A direct approach is best if you want to solve the issue once and for all. When polite hints don’t work, let the co-worker know how he or she is negatively affecting your productively.

You might need to hone your confidence and assertiveness but ensure you sincerely express yourself to the best of your ability. That is why they say, honesty is the best policy.

Stay Positive

Always maintain a positive attitude, even around the person who seems to hurt you every day. Even Jesus asked us to love our enemies. Truth is whatever they do or don’t do won’t affect your personal life in any way. Keep in mind that once you are good at what you do, nothing and no one can bring you down.

 

 

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