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Ladies: This is the Only Way You Can Achieve Financial Freedom

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There are many ways a lady can gain wealth. A lady’s power does not lie between her thighs, believing it does disempowers the lady. Many atimes, ladies stoop so low to the point of using their bodies to make money, this is unnecessary because as a lady, you possess so many hidden skills.

Ladies have refused to search deeply into themselves and find themselves out, they are not experts at managing their own finances and end up broke. Back in my 100 level days, my roommates were desperate to get anything called money but the fact is they hard skills within them they were not ready to make use of.

As a lady, you should know yourself completely, what you are capable of doing and what you are not capable of doing. There are many ways to get yourself some cash instead of settling for cheap means. Learn to bring out the best in yourself.

The blogger Linda Ikeji didn’t get rich overnight, she faced so many challenges but despite the circumstances, she scaled through because she didn’t limit herself to bring poor, she believes she could and would get rich and she achieved her goal.

Ladies this days say they can’t do cheap handiworks like hairdressing, tailoring and the likes yet they complain of money problems. The easiest way to make it in life is to do what you are good at. Hairdressers and Tailors this days are making it big time.

When you limit yourself to one thing, you will not reach your goal. You do not have to sacrifice your body to make money for yourself because men give respect to women who keep their dignity. No man is ready to end up with a second hand material therefore, ladiesmake use of your time.

There are times you will run dry, think of what you can do best and do it to make money for yourself. Money should never be a problem in a ladies life, because she has hidden potentials to get her cash at the top of a finger.

How to Be a Successful African Woman

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Successful people do not sit in a spot and expect good things to come their way, they work their way to success. The road to success is rough therefore to attain that goal of yours, you have to work really hard, only through hard work and determination can one reach the top.

Discipline is the first thing to take to heart, one has to stay disciplined and study hard to reach that rank. The best students in class would not be the best if they are not well disciplined with their studies. A successful students shuns every form of distraction.
Recently, my friend and I decided to eat in an eatery after several hours of study, she didn’t have much on her so I decided to save money, I ordered for something cheaper than what i wanted, that got me thinking ” what exactly do we settle for in our lives because they seem easier or cheaper than what we really want?”

The truth is, to reach the top or attain your goal, you have to go for what motivates you, do not settle for less. Think about what motivates and drives you, what makes you feel fulfilled.
Also, be aware of your value and purpose. Everyone is created differently, never try to be like someone and never compare yourself to someone else. Be the best at who you already are, ‘follow you passion’ that’s the word.

Life is hard and nothing of value is ever handed to us. Pain and discomfort are part of the process. Learn to struggle and never feel entitled to anything you did not swear or struggle for “your struggle builds your muscle”. Push past your fear, never use excuses and learn to roll up your sleeves.

Utilize materials that helps expand your knowledge base. Do well to also take advise from those at the top, that will force you to push yourself harder to reach the top.
Always go for your goals and never settle for second best.
Next time, I’ll order what i really want to eat.

More so, everyone has that talent that is untapped, make use of it.
Winners would always be winners because they do what winners do. No winner is a victim of circumstances because they take circumstances as new opportunities. The difference between the winner and the loser is not intelligence but drive and initiative.

No matter how scared a successful person might be, he makes sure he achieve his goal ‘do it scared’ and by doing it, you will create a momentum that will lead to progress and results.
Everyone wants to see himself or herself at the top, they want to succeed by hook or crook, but dubious means would do you no good, like I said earlier, only through hard work and determination can you reach the top therefore work hard, think high and dream big.

6 lies you tell yourself

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6 lies you tell yourself
Many a times, you tend to be too hard on yourself as a lady and say so many negative things to yourself. When you tell yourself a lot of negative things, you begin to believe them. You know these things are not true and you shouldn’t give in. The best thing you can do to yourself is to see the best in you.

Lie # 6: I have a bad posture
Most girls are too conscious of themselves especially when they walk with their peers, they think their steps are horrible, their posture is nothing to write home about. The answer is simple, stand up straight and keep that confidence going strong.

Lie # 5: No one wants to be my friend
This is actually the biggest lie you would tell yourself. There is always someone out there who admires you and wants to be like you. “I never knew someone liked me this much to the extent of wanting to be my friend” Simi, a final year student of political science once said to me after being told her attitude was loved . Never call yourself a loner, try meeting new people, there are people out there that share something in common with you.

Lie # 4: I’m not smart
There is no “madam perfect” out there, everyone has their flaws. Nobody is good at everything. I realized during a discussion test that the smartest girl in my class was never really smart, she worked her way into making everyone believe she was that smart. When you find yourself struggling with a course, never be too proud to ask for help, you would be helping yourself, and who knows, you could also be helping that person helping you help yourself.

Lie # 3: I’m not attractive
Common, why focus on the negative. The calendar models you see here and there are not the real them, never think they are perfect. Look for that positive thing in you, your good legs, your flawless face, your contagious smile or your perfect eyes.
Remember, you are wonderfully and beautifully made by God.
I never believed I was beautiful until an admirer(My crush) told me I had always been his secret admirer, trust I felt so good. But never wait for someone to tell you how beautiful you are, always believe you are beautiful. Say to yourself I AM BEAUTIFUL.

Lie # 2: I am too short or too tall
Why complain about your height? Do you want to be short if you are tall or vice versa? It’s all the same, no matter the height, you can’t control it, never allow others intimidate you with their height, you will always be the perfect you. “LOVE YOURSELF”.

Lie # 1: No one understands me
Do you really care if someone understands you? Why care so much about something you should give little or no thoughts to. The fact is you understand yourself, so with that, it is left to whoever wants to understand you . I will always repeat, ” the best person you can always be is you”

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